My 2nd Puberty

[SubMelissa]

Luna,

I think we got confused. I thought I was standing in line to kiss your ass???

But hey I will stand in line as long as it takes, and through all types of weather to kiss the ass of Nina Hartley. Like who wouldn't?

[Luna Tigre]

Originally Posted by SubMelissa

Luna,

I think we got confused. I thought I was standing in line to kiss your ass???

But hey I will stand in line as long as it takes, and through all types of weather to kiss the ass of Nina Hartley. Like who wouldn't?

Por moi? Awwww thanks, Mel, you sure do know how to make a kitty blush You always have a free pass to kiss me anywhere you want, hon (just as long as it's someplace naughty )

[Remi Dancer]

I totally get the second puberty feeling when flirting with women. For me as a generally exhibitionsitic woman who grew up in SF with liberal parents and blessed to always find myself in communities of people who are generally gay-friendly and sex-positive, I never really had much coming out to do. I was outspoken about sex in highschool and as an adult, any time I told my mom something about my sex life, she confirmed that I got all my open and honest attitudes from her even though I don't ever remember anything explicit about it during my upbringing.

Over the years since college:
"Mom, I'm bi." "Yes daughter, that's a natural way to be."

"I want to be a stripper for a while" "Oh yes, I found that go-go dancing was a good way to make money in college myself"

"I'm poly." "Do you remember so and so and so and so? The were lovers of mine."

Anyhow, despite strong sexual self-identity for most of my adult life, and by now (in my mid 30s) having had several female lovers (often short affairs), I still find that most of my more long term relationships have been with men and that when it comes to flirting with girls, I go all shy/embarassed/silly. My current girlfriend's solution to this awkwardness was to suggest that we just spend a few hours naked together in bed (and this was back when she and my long-term partner had just starated flirting and were barely admiting interest much less knowing where I would stand in all this, and I thought she was straight! It was half-joking, but it worked.) But really, I have to admit, I liked that feeling of turning red and going shy. I'm so rarely insecure that its novel and a bit of a turn on. (Particularly when I can share all my embaressed thoughts with my partner and get him to tease me about them). So I'm definitely with Nina and you on this one... Enjoy the process!

[Luna Tigre]

Wow! What a life story! And what an accepting family! Will your parents adopt me?

Thinking more about enjoying the journey, I'm struck by how fun puberty is the second time around. I started thinking about why it seemed like such a nightmare growing up lol.

I suppose there was a lot that I didn't know back then (if I knew you could be a nerd and still have an enjoyable sex life, I wouldn't have felt so bad about being so shy lol) and too, not everyone is going through a similar process while simultaneously being stuck in a rigid school system (and not the GOOD kind of rigid, btw lol). I'm glad I'm getting a chance to go back through it with a supportive partner and a supportive group of kinky, perverted, sexy, sex maniacs (thanks you guys!)

Any other thoughts?

Lotsa lixxx

Kip